Why you need to Argue

For the most people don’t like to argue with their significant other, myself included. We all would like for everything to be gumdrops and roses all the time living on a good feeling high. But as life will have that isn’t always the case and I am going to tell you that it is good to start an argument.

How many times have you done something just to please your other half just to avoid an argument? How many times have you bitten your tongue when you should have said what was on your mind? By you keeping the peace and not saying what you probably should have said your holding everything in letting it fester. The problem with this is that all this stuff keeps piling on until you let it explode.

By stating your case to the other person in your relationship you are showing them that you also have a say. Nobody deserves to get walked over all the time. You owe it to yourself to be seen as the other half. But that is where sometimes this goes south.

By south I mean an argument. Well I am going to tell you arguments are not always bad because you can bring to light the things that are bothering you the most. All the tension and stress is not good on anyone leaving things be that bother you. If you clear the air you will feel better and maybe learn a thing or too. I know from personal experience that things that I have aired with significant others helped me to understand their side of the argument. Why did they do what they did?

By understanding the other people in the relationship you can have a deeper bond that you didn’t know wasn’t possible. So argue it out and reap the benefits. As always stay safe and share with your friends.

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